Alabama prison weddings
Tuesday, February 26th, 2008Lisa and Cecil Vinson were one of 12 couples who were married last Thursday at the Bibb County Correctional Facility in Brent, AL.
The 12 couples were married last week in one of the largest group ceremonies Chaplain Eddie Smith has performed.
Couples are married at the prison once every six months, and getting approval requires mounds of paperwork, applications and required reading of Scriptures.
Last week, the newlyweds sat close holding hands in the prison chapel after Smith performed the group ceremony. It would be the closest couples could get since the prison does not allow conjugal visits.
Most were holding their heads together, talking softly and giggling like teenagers, including Lisa and Cecil Vinson.

Cecil kisses his bride, Lisa.
Cecil Vinson, 41, has been in prison for more than 15 years. After his divorce eight years ago, he started trying to reconnect with Lisa, who he dated when they were in their early 20s. His mother finally found her address and wrote her six months ago.
“I gave him up once. I’m not going to give him up again,” Lisa Vinson said.
“It’s like everything fell into place when I found her,” Cecil Vinson said.
Cecil Vinson, from Wetumpka, was charged in 1988 with capital murder and receiving stolen property. His wife said he is serving time for the stolen property charge because he was in possession of a car owned by a murder victim. Another man committed the murder, she said.
It’s not easy to keep up their relationship. They speak on the phone once every two weeks — it costs $8 for a 20-minute collect call — and they write every day. Every detail of what happens in their lives is shared. Lisa says the writing has brought them closer.
“It’s easier to put down on paper what you’re really feeling,” she said.
“You have got to be a strong person to have a relationship like this. There is no sense going into anything like it if you’re not. You’ve got to have a lot of love and a lot of faith and be willing to live with what other people are going to say.”
“I cried all the way home Thursday.”
Cecil Vinson, who did construction work before his incarceration, has spent most of his adult life in jail.
“He doesn’t know anything about computers or cell phones. He’s really been out of touch, and it’ll be tough for him when he gets out,” Lisa Vinson said. “He’ll be OK, because he has a good support system behind him.”
According to the Alabama Dept of Corrections website, Cecil is scheduled for release on March 18, 2011.
Story via Tuscaloosa News.

















